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WHOLENESS EQUALS READING - TAPASYA A.C

Rightly said by one of the doctors,  “The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn,  the more places you'll go .”  I Can Read with my Eyes Shut! - Dr. Seuss Featuring the titular character from  The Cat in the Hat . In this story  The Cat in the Hat  teaches the  Young Cat in the Hat  about learning how much fun you can have with reading and learning in how to do things with your eyes shut half of time but not all the time.  It becomes a prime responsibility of parents and teachers to inculcate habit of reading in children in their elementary age.  Unless a child is given the opportunity to read poetry, mysteries, historical fiction, biographies, autobiographies, and science fiction, he or she may not know all of the types of stories that are created for readers of all ages. Student book choice is the first step in getting children hooked on reading. When students have ownership of their rea...

Are Children likely to suffer from Stress disorder?

      PTSD which has always been discussed amongst counselors, psychiatric and many of the psychological scholars have added light towards the adult stress disorder problems. we living in India do not believe in mental disorders, especially in children. PTSD have started overshadowing children too. Posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a mental health problem. It can affect people of all ages. A child with PTSD keeps having scary thoughts and memories of a past event. He or she finds the event terrifying, either physically or emotionally.   PTSD may be accompanied by:   Depression,  Substance abuse,  Anxiety A child or teen may suffer from PTSD after one of these traumatic events: Bad accidents, such as car or train wrecks Invasive medical procedures, especially for children younger than age 6 Animal bites Natural disasters, such as floods or earthquakes Manmade tragedies, such as bombings Violent personal attacks, such as a mugging, rape, torture, o...

Post Covid Anxiety Problem

     For people who worry a lot and are dependent on others for mere activities may also psychologically be unfit.       Prolong worry have always been proven hindrance for the smooth running of life. persistent and excessive worry about a number of different things have been recognized as 'GAD' or Generalized Anxiety disorder. Though it feels normal but  People with GAD may anticipate disaster and may be overly concerned about money, health, family, work, or other issues. Individuals with GAD find it difficult to control their worry. They may worry more than seems warranted about actual events or may expect the worst even when there is no apparent reason for concern.      Generalized anxiety disorder symptoms can vary. They may include:   Persistent worrying or anxiety about a number of areas that are out of proportion to the         impact of the events  Overthinking plans and solutions to all ...

Why is it necessary to remember God?

  WHY IS IT NECESSARY TO REMEMBER GOD? Now, supposing that God invariably awards the frui t of our actions according as they are good or bad, and if he cannot reduce or enhance it, why should we remember him? Let us now consider this question. In the first place, remembrance of God is a principal item of worship; is a very noble act and a royal road to spiritual advancement; nay, it tops all spiritual practices. By practicing this we feel the urge for it more and more and the result is that we actually remember God more and more so that our mind gets purified and the supreme light of divine wisdom begins to be reflected thereon. The fire of wisdom burns away the stock of sancita Karmas and thus destroys the seed of rebirth. That is why worship of God is supremely necessary. The next reason why we should worship God is that this constitutes the paramount duty of our life. People serve their parents as a matter of duty. Naturally, therefore it is our foremost and paramount duty t...

That last smile

 I am filled with lots of negative and positive emotions today. After a period of time I have Gained tranquility. this is because of a smile i felt in morning, today. She was alone, she is still alone. She is brave and yet pathetic. She is lovable and yet contemptible. She has everyone and yet no one. She believes and yet suspects. just like Niagara falls she is vivacious yet very silent. She was able to write her whole life today with her own hands. She kept listing and Analyzing things for her future whole night. She saw her nights to be longer yesterday. She is broken yet a mother.  To say good or bad she was thoughtless today. She gave me a smile while leaving. She saw her destination changing in these 10days. The smile that had so many questions but calmness and fearfulness overtook all over.

The Lost one

 Today when i decided to write after a long time a thought that crossed my mind was of a girl who kept on asking me, why don't I write blogs frequently? I know my blogs and my writings are not upto the mark. I always got comments from her may it be good or bad. This blog is a tribute to one of my friends who is no more with us. The sudden disappearance can still not be digested by me. I miss her, all of them who were connected to her miss her a lot. A young lady who was gem and precious to many lost the battle. She as a personality was a TOMBOY. A helping hand to everyone. Having tons of friends, availabilty was never a issue for her.  After losing her, I started connecting to those whom i have not spoken to for a long period of time. Guilt that has been in my heart forever is of not meeting her, since many a times I had chance.

A letter to my long lost boyfriend

 Time is been uptight with us, isn't it? I look upon searching for a personality which is long gone. You promised to be with me. You gave me wings to reach each corner of this world. You become adviser, you loved me at my weak times, you made me love urself at the extent that it became impossible to seperate from you physically and mentally. With all due love and time spent the respect for u will never vanish. What has happened to this ideal personality? Why is it unseen when I still require it to hold my hands? My long lost boyfriend is lost and the search for him is still on. Maybe krishna and Radha are till famous because their soul didn't accept anyone to enter into their spaces for eternity. Maybe love is so powerful weapon which forced them to get seperated physically but was unsuccessful to break them soulfully. My long lost boyfriend, I still await ur presence in this vacant and swallow world. If u exist, I exist. If hope destroys, world ll be be destroyed. 

AWAKENING

In a general conversation with my husband I came across a new ideology of house wife. He labeled me as homemaker. Listening myself called as homemaker., I got furious. With a thick tone I correct him. I asked him not to call me homemaker since I am a working lady. He asked me,    "do you feel inferior when I call you housewife?" I replied immediately saying, YES. He laughed and corrected me by defining the term housewife. He said, the correct word for housewife is HOMEMAKER. The lady in the house manages, feeds, love, takes care, nourishes everyone in the family. She is the one who sticks to basics even though things around her are inappropriate. He emphasised, it's only because of you and my mother that I am able to reach office without having a second thought. How could a homemaker be inferior? Completing all your duties at home you still find time to focus on improving your abilities and working incredibly for yourself. You and like you other women are superheroes. Wit...

Tum se Aap ka safar

Agar tum nah hote, toh kon hota Har waqt pyaar se dekhnewala, Har ghadi mujhe pukarnewala, Ek nazar dekhu to, muskurahat denewala. Chahakar bhi Ruth na pati, Aapki baaton main hi wo jadu hai Pyaar se ek awaaz lagakr , Pani lana khe dete ho, Sari shikayate hi dur kar dete ho. Kya hai aisa tum main  Jo dusron main kabhi parakh hi ni payi. Nazar uthake jab dekhu, Aapse juddi hui hi khudko payi Jab nahi hote sath mere tum Tumhari yaadein itni anmol hai Ki unmain bhi Gunjji aawaz aapki payi.

A stubborn overview

This is the fact that now a days we are lacking patience. We try to get hold on many things which don't ever relate to us. Most importantly when it comes to working institutions they put lots of pressure only because they know employees are in seperate need of job and will not quit. Taking the fact into consideration they overburden with minimal amount of salary.  Many of the private employees during this pandemic lost their job. Leaving their hands and replacing is a bad choice. It affects the state of mind. Even though the person is financially strong. Putting them on stand by is absolutely a bad option. These were the people who helped the institution on several occasions. This blog is not written for preaching anyone. It is quite understood, an institution is just an organisation which in need will talk sugar coated language. When the work ends it kicks off. An employee gives lots of time,love,devotion and pray for well being and upliftment of any institution. The idea of repla...

Mission accomplished..

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            It feels so good when we see a person accomplishing his/her dreams and tenure. Today, speaking about this gives me a overwhelming sight of the past journey. So it was the year 2016-2017 when I saw him taking a lot of pressure. Clouds of fear and blacking of stress could be sensed. He was quite upset with his transfer to another station _ Churchgate. He lost his courage to step forward and go to work. His enthusiasm towards his work was lost and he started questioning many things. I believe, the only thing he was most inclined was his faith towards God. His devotion never shook in any circumstance.      During this journey of 4 years his health suffered. He lost himself in the immese pressure of making himself do what he didn't want to. But it is said, God tests us. I felt those 4years were the test and all the difficulties were the question.      The person of who I am talking is My DAD. Today when he...

YOU

YOU and I are always together. You have no comparison. YOU are my way to milky way, white as milk and vast as sky. For me YOU are always right, for me YOU are a wonderful delight, for me YOU can still get a moon, sun, star if I ask for. YOU are a delicious meal I would travel for. I felt once, world may change out of love but YOU made me step together in a secured way. Till the days I always wait, for your happy and joyous face. You are the warrior, the saviour, the knight of my life. YOU yes YOU are my hero. I think of YOU day and night, I admire you all my evening. Mornings are just like YOU, the beginning of each day. I fear not for I may lose YOU. The cosmic energy must help me to get YOU. What would I do? What would I say? The unbearable love is on my way.... IT's YOU.... #YOU #ONLYYOU

EVER HEARD OF KOOTHANDAVAR TEMPLE FEST..

KOOVAGAM village in TamilNadu admits hundreds of transgender people from various parts of country on the auspicious occasion of temple fest. Transgender people regards Koothandavar, the principle deity of the temple, as their husband and worship him. Aravan was given a common name_Koothandavar. Aravan was the son of pandava prince Arjuna. They hold the festival at the temple every year to commemorate the sacrifice of Aravan. This festival begins on April 29 and lasts for 16 days symbolizing the war between Pandavas and Kauravas. This occasion is hosted by different non governmental organisation with support of the Tamil nadu government. On the penultimate day, transgender people follow all the elements and old rituals getting their Thalis (Mangalsutra) tied by the temple priests declaring Aravan as their husband. The celebration continues till the dawn. They mourn the death of Aravan by breaking thalis and bangles.It's the mythology that says pandava decided to sacrifice Aravan to ...

Don't blame men!

A curtain figure hidden deep down nobody nowhere it changes lots of secrets lost while growing older supressed unwillingly loves conditionally pours all energy happy keeping all family waits till the urge of buying forgets easily all the flaws Love for all reflects in his eyes but his tears never rolls in bright. He is not to be blamed, because he is not lame. A man is always expected to be correct in every turn of his life. How can we be so selfish for not understanding that he is still a human being? He has his own choices. He has his dreams. He is a responsible by birth. Blaming him for doing wrong is not his failure. What wrong in it if he don't want to commit? Men were considered good at problem-solving and decision-making. While not free from their own problems, the first precept of conventional wisdom held that men had to keep certain things to themselves. This was the expectation, and was considered the manly thing to do. But times have changed and society has grown mor...

Aashadi Ekadashi

The state of Maharashtra is celebrating Aashadi Ekadashi today. Though we are stuck for 103 days of lockdown, today people of Maharashtra still feels the same devotion and spiritual enlightment. People from many places walk barefoot and reach the land of Vitthal (incarnation of Vishnu) which is Pandharpur. Pandharpur is known to be the land of devotees. Pandharpur was once upon a time a land of wealthy farmers and joyous people. They were ruled under a great and blessed king Mandata. When all was well happening in the kingdom famine stuck straight for 3 years. Many people lost their lives, their families,their houses,their lands. This was the downfall of the kingdom and healthy wealthy people. They worshipped lord Vitthal. Another story that says,in ancient times, war took place between Deities and Demons. Mrudumanya, son of demon Kumbha  won the boon of immortality from Deity Shiva through penance. As a result, he became unconquerable for Brahma, Vishnu and Shiv. Fearing h...

UNKNOWN FACT 2

🙏Fact known, According to Shiv Puranas, once Brahma (the god of creation) and Vishnu (the form of God during Preservation) had an argument over supremacy of creation. To settle the debate, Supreme God Shiva pierced the three worlds appearing as a huge Infinite Pillar of Light, the Jyotirlinga which later cooled into the Holy Mountain Annamalai. Vishnu and Brahma split their ways to downwards and upwards respectively to find the end of the light in either directions. Brahma lied that he found out the end, while Vishnu conceded his defeat.This lie of Brahma angered Shiva making him curse Brahma that even though he is the creator of the universe he would not be worshipped. The jyotirlinga is the Supreme Shiva, partless reality, out of which Shiva appeared in another Form, Lingodbhava. The jyothirlinga shrines are Temples where Shiva appeared as a fiery column of light. 💥It's time to know about the second story of Jyotirlings situated in India. After gujarat let's vi...

UNKNOWN FACTS 1

I felt the need of writing this blog since we are quarantined for approximately 86 days. Two things have definately felt by everyone. First, we have started introspecting ourselves and others and second, of having spiritual mindset. We have started believing in power not just to be safe from COVID-19 but to understand how spiritually our mind be in peace. Have you ever wondered the stories of twelve Jyotirlings of Lord Shiva? So, I decided to spread positive thoughts and highlight, some goodreads on it. For 12 consecutive days I ll narrate one story based on jyotirling. Let us start with the 1st one. Any Guesses? India is a land of Gods and Lord Shiva is the most revered Gods by Hindus all across the world. Worshipped in the form of Shivlinga, Lord Shiva is believed to bless all his true devotees with salvation. The twelve Jyotirlingas also called the ‘Dwadash Jyotirlingas’ are considered to be the holiest of all shrines dedicated to Lord Shiva and according to the beliefs of Hind...

love of my life...

A man who is gentle but stern for world outside. A man I see sacrificed but never let me do the same A man I admire helped me see whole world. A man that showers love built me to fight for good. A man I know waked hundred miles but provided me a flowery path with grace A man mastered nothing still pushes me to the deepest core A man who was sleepless comforted me to bed A man will do everything again all over Without judging and thinking twice. He is the love of my life my hero, my father. All over world we celebrated International Father's day. Celebration for a man who donot believe in it. He is way simple, delicate, emotional when it comes to his children. His love can be never ending. His lessons are overwelming. His approach is always positive. Daughters are his princess always. Every tear of my eyes shows emotions of love. I still remember I had to struggle a lot to wake up early since I am not a morning person. Life always commanded me for early rising.I remember when I was...

Life Still goes on...

Beautiful life desires nothing. Accept new changes in this process. Things make their way, at correct time and correct place.. Abandoning is never an option. Standup and walk alone In this race of life. Nobody judges, nobody cares.. Life still goes on... Nation is mourning at the death of the actor_Sushant Singh Rajput. When investigated it came out to be CLINICAL DEPRESSION. We take it very lighty but these symptoms are been seen in all of us. People have maintained themselves by ignoring the signs and symptoms. The urge to speak with some one and feeling of left out is constant in these people. Have a look at it: Signs and symptoms of clinical depression may include: Feelings of sadness, tearfulness, emptiness or hopelessness Angry outbursts, irritability or frustration, even over small matters Loss of interest or pleasure in most or all normal activities, such as sex, hobbies or sports Sleep disturbances, including insomnia or sleeping too much Tiredness and lack of energy, so even...

IT WORKS..

Bollywood and their fans are in shock today. We have been watching movies and learning a lot from them. Movies are the great source of imagination. 'Catharsis', a literary term which means 'purging of emotional feelings'. This term was initially used when audience use to watch plays now it has replaced with movies but the meaning remains the same. The shocking news that we recieved today was the suicidal attempt of Sushant Singh Rajput. Recently, everyone enjoyed the movie called, CHHICHHORE that taught us tags are just for fun, we need to win ourselves by hardwork and support. It also taught us, we cannot predict our future but accepting success and failure with all our heart is important. Failure and success go hand in hand. We cannot achieve success till we have tasted failure at least once. We all should know that is not easy to overcome failure but its not the end_ Picture abhi baki hai mere dost. Sharukh Khan in his movie, OM SHANTI OM, stated the above line. The ...